Some marriages are husband and wife. Other marriages are God, husband and wife. Marriages that have God as a member have huge advantages over the marriage that don’t.

Revelation 3:20 Behold, I stand at the door and knock; if anyone hears My voice and opens the door, I will come in to him and will dine with him, and he with Me.

God becomes part of a couples marriage who invite Him to be part. When He is an official member of our marriage relationship because we invited Him to be, He gives us strength to do the things that are very difficult to do, but so important. The command to husbands in Ephesians is to love our wives to the same degree that Jesus loved the church and gave his life for the church. That is an impossible command without God’s strength. God gives us the wisdom to know what to say and do in any and every situation that could come up in a marriage.

I feel angry a lot. I am always in a hurry, and something or someone is regularly interrupting my pursuit of getting everything crossed off my todo list, and I get instantly angry. Though I feel the emotion of anger off and on all through most every day I seldom act angry or say something in anger. I have had that as one of my major commitments in life for a number of years. When I think and remember many times in the past when I acted and spoke in anger to family members, friends, acquaintances, and perfect strangers I cringe, and wish I could take them all back. One of the most significant lessons I ever learned in life is that I don’t have to act the way I feel. I can be self-controlled, patient, gracious, kind, tender-hearted, and quickly forgiving by choosing to be, because God commands it, and depending on God’s strength as I do.

Keys to overcoming anger; (1) Memorize and meditate on anti-anger verses in the Bible.

Psalms 37:8 Cease from anger and forsake wrath; Do not fret; it leads only to evildoing.

Ephesians 4:31 Let all bitterness and wrath and anger and clamor and slander be put away from you, along with all malice.

(2) Never make excuses, justify, or blame others for your anger. Until you say to yourself, there is no excuse, ever for dishonoring a person by my words spoken in anger, you will not conquer the emotion of anger.

(3) Every morning make a commitment for that day that you will not act or speak in anger to anyone no matter what they did or said, and ask God for His strength to keep the commitment.God’s power flows to commitment.

I was part of the Memorial Service today for Chuck McGehee who died Saturday morning from a year long battle with liver cancer. It was a nice service with many friends and family members sharing their memories of Chuck’s life. What really made it nice was that Chuck was a faithful and fully devoted follower of Jesus Christ. The confidence that he is now with Jesus enjoying all the beauty of heaven and the amazing joy of being in the presence of Jesus is what makes a service like today such a positive one. The Apostle Paul said that we don’t grieve at the death of a loved one like the world does because they have no hope. Death is the end of the line for them, everything is over, capoot, nothing matters any more. For me and all who are followers of Jesus, death is the real beginning of life not the end of it. I can’t imagine how unmotivated I would be if I believed that when I died I just turned to dirt and that was it, everything was over and all that I did would soon be forgotten.

Ecclesiastes 3:11 He has also set eternity in their heart,

Romans 1:19-20 because that which is known about God is evident within them; for God made it evident to them. For since the creation of the world His invisible attributes, His eternal power and divine nature, have been clearly seen, being understood through what has been made, so that they are without excuse.

God has put in us the awareness of Himself, we know there is a God, and we also know that we are eternal, we don’t just die and turn to death, we know that in our heart. So why would so many say they don’t believe in God? The Bible says that people deny the existence of God because they don’t want to be submissive to Him, they want to be their own god, deciding what is right and wrong. It is the original temptation by the devil all over again.

But those who deny the existence of God are really being more honest or real than the person who says that they believe in God, in Jesus as their Savior, but live their life with no thought about following, obeying, loving, or serving Jesus as Lord of their life. Such people are not saved, not headed for heaven, and are the reason many people choose not to follow Jesus, because it doesn’t appear to make any difference.

Chuck was the real deal. He loved Jesus, followed Him, and worked hard to love people in obedience to Christ. I look forward to the day I enter into Glory, get my new body, see my Dad and all those who are already there.

In the beginning God created man in His image and likeness to live and fellowship with Him forever. This life, on this earth was not the primary goal of God, it is a tool and method of finding out who was worthy to live with Him, and to make them more worthy by means of trials and challenges.

2 Thessalonians 1:5This is a plain indication of God’s righteous judgment so that you will be considered worthy of the kingdom of God, for which indeed you are suffering.

2 Thessalonians 1:11 To this end also we pray for you always, that our God will count you worthy of your calling, and fulfill every desire for goodness and the work of faith with power,

Ephesians 4:1 Therefore I, the prisoner of the Lord, implore you to walk in a manner worthy of the calling with which you have been called,

It is an interesting concept in that we are counted as worthy by God because we counted ourselves as unworthy.

2 Corinthians 3:5-6 Not that we are adequate in ourselves to consider anything as coming from ourselves, but our adequacy is from God, who also made us adequate as servants of a new covenant,

Our worthiness grows as we serve God, doing his work, blessing people, teaching, praying, and giving.

Today I locked my keys in the car. That is the first time ever. Patty on the other hand is probably in the thousands. She locked her keys in the car 3 times in one day once. So when I called her to bring the spar key for my car today you would have thought I had said that we had won the lottery. I think I will plan to lock my keys in the car once each month just to make Patty’s day.

Making mistakes, sinning, messing up, doing dumb things is the human way. But what we all want is to get better. God wants us to get better, and He has given us what we need to do just that. But before God’s provision for improvement will work we have got to want to grow. The stronger the desire the faster we grow.

Matthew 5:6 Blessed are those who hunger and thirst for righteousness, for they shall be satisfied.

Coupled with the desire is grow is the guilt we feel when we blow it. The stronger the guilt the faster we grow. The Holy Spirit will convict us but we are responsible to keep our conscience alive and sensitive. When we make excuses and blame others when we sin we are dulling our conscience. With every excuse and justification we give our conscience becomes more hardened.

Matthew 5:4 Blessed are those who mourn, for they shall be comforted.

The mourning Jesus is talking about is the grieving we do over our mistakes, sins, and poor choices.

This morning at sometime a pipe in our hot water heater broke, and water was all over our bathroom and our bedroom before either Patty or I heard it. My alarm was set for 5:40 am, but I woke up and got out of bed at 5:30. It is a rather rude awakening when you get out of bed and put your feet in an inch of water! I had 2 guys showing up at our house at 6:30 am to go surf fishing with me so I had just one hour to get the water turned off and see what was wrong and fix it. It only took me about 5 minutes to determine that fixing the problem was going to take more than an hour and would require several trips to “Home Depot” for parts. I thought, I should skip fishing and stay home and fix this hot water heater. Fortunately I was able to ignore that responsible thought, and go fishing. We fished all day in the surf near Newport, and caught 42 red tailed perch, it was a great day of fishing. We got home at 6:00 pm and I filleted and cleaned fish until 8:00 pm, and then I worked on the hot water heater until 10:00 pm and now I am writing this blog, and then I need to ride my stationary bike for an hour and I will read my Bible, and pray some while I ride. Busy day, but busy is good

Dear Jesus,

I confess to You that I am a sinner, and I have broken many of Your laws.

I admit that I don’t deserve Heaven and never will.

I accept Your free gift of eternal life that You are offering to me.

I believe that You, Jesus are God, equal with the Father.

I believe that you emptied Yourself of all that You were as God, and that You left Heaven, and became just exactly like me in every way.

I believe that You never sinned, not even a little one, not even in thought or attitude.

I believe that You were nailed to a cross, and while You hung there God the Father took all of my sins, past, present and future and put them on You, and looked at You as if you actually committed the sins that I committed, and punished You, for my sins.

I believe that You physically died on that cross, that You were buried, and that three days later You rose from the dead, and that You are alive today.

I commit my life to You. You have purchased me with Your blood, I belong to You.

I declare You to be Lord of my life.

I will obey You and do whatever You ask and I will follow You and serve You all the days of my life.

I know that I will fail many times as Your disciple. Thank you for Your continual forgiveness of me. I will not take advantage of Your forgiveness, mercy, and grace, to live the way I want, but I will accept Your forgiveness and live my life free from the fear of failing.

I admit that I don’t have the ability to live for You and to follow You in my own strength, but I do believe that the Holy Spirit now lives in me, and gives me the strength to grow and please You with my life.

I read this from someone else’s Facebook entry of a “cut and paste” of a blog I wrote several years ago. I liked it so well I thought I would post it again. Fits for Easter.

I don’t like people telling me what to do. I try not to get irritated when they do, because it happens more and more as I get older, in fact even my kids boss me around now. We all have this reaction and resistance to being told what to do, and most of us have developed a patience or a self-control level so that we don’t make a big scene when we are treated like someone’s servant.

The one person that I want to boss me is Jesus. I want Him to lead me and to be my Lord in every area of my life. When I say, “I want” that is an intellectual wanting, in my heart I still tend to resist His Lordship in my life, there is this pride in me that thinks I can run my own life.  That independent spirit in me is really quite foolish when I think about the fact that Jesus is God, all wise, my creator, who knows everything about me, and loves me so much that He gave His life for me and paid for my sin. I want to be submissive to His Lordship and leading in my life so to make it more of a reality in my heart and soul I declare Him my Lord every morning, and ask for His help in being humble in my walk with Him.

It would seem like by this time I would have conquered this resistance to being led by the Son of God.  I am hoping that I get it down soon.

We had our “Good Friday” service tonight at JBC. The Jefferson Evangelical Church and the Abundant Life Center joined us for a community service together, and it was such a blessed time. The highlight of the evening was the Communion service and the worship that was part of Communion and that followed it. The main point of the evening was to try and understand the full price that Jesus paid so that our sins could be forgiven and we could live in heaven with God. We don’t really think much about the full price that was paid for our sins. Fully understanding the price that was paid for our redemption is sobering, are we that important to God that He was willing to pay that kind of price for our sins?

1. He left heaven, emptied Himself of all that He was as God and became fully man. How far was that journey?

2. He was tortured on the cross, and experienced horrendous pain as part of the price He paid For us to be forgiven.

3. He became our sin, that is, God the Father looked at,Jesus as if he actually committed the sins we committed and punished Jesus for doing them. He poured out His wrath as a holy God against the atrocities of all mankind’s sin on His perfect and sinless Son.

4. The oneness, the unity of the Son and the Father was broken for the first time in eternity as God the Father turned His back on His Son because He had become our sin.

5. Jesus felt the guilt and shame of the sins of every person who has ever lived or will live, His soul was tormented as our sins became His sin.

To think lightly, or naively about what Jesus did because of what we have done so that we could be forgiven is the ultimate in the lack of appreciation. We get used to the story of redemption and it no longer “wows” us with the amazing love of our Heavenly Father.

Well, I finished everything on the boat and I finished the trailer today and decided to take it on her maiden voyage at Freeway Lakes.I pulled it with my Kia Reo, and the Kia pulled it fine, though it looks funny because the boat and trailer are bigger than car😀. Once I got it in the lake she worked good. It is very stable, and I can stand clear on one side with very little tipping. I rowed for awhile and every pull on the oars resulted in a lot of net forward movement. I also ran it with the electric trolling motor, and on the lowest setting it went about 2 miles an hour. I would like it if I could get it to go 1 mph, because that is the perfect trolling speed. I might have to drag a bucket behind the boat to slow it down a bit. But it handled nicely, it was very stable, and it looks very nice, especially with me in it.