One of the things my Dad used to say when we got hurt on the farm was, “Just rub some dirt on it”. He really didn’t mean it literally, at least I never saw him rub any dirt on his “owies”, it just meant don’t whine about it. So when I get hurt that is what I say, though I have never rubbed any dirt on any of my “owies” either. But sometimes those who hear me say it think I am being literal, and therefore think that I am some kind of nut. A couple of days ago I was working on the roof of my shop with a son and a couple of grandsons. We were taking off the old rusted metal roofing and putting on some 3 tab roofing, and in the process of throwing the metal roofing off of the roof of the shop a piece fell across the back of my hand and cut it pretty good. The tricky part was trying to climb down the ladder with one hand bleeding all over the place, and the other hand holding my coat against the cut to keep it from bleeding any more than it was. Patty and our daughter Sherri got all excited and insisted that I go in and get some stitches in it, but that didn’t sound like much fun to me so I said, “I will just rub some dirt on it!” They both rolled their eyes, so I said. “Lets just pour some hydrogen peroxide on it and tape it up good, and I can go back to work, hydrogen peroxide works almost as good as dirt”. They again rolled their eyes, but taped it up good, and today it had healed up enough so that I preached 2 services and a leadership class with no covering on it. It still looks pretty ugly, but it is much better than it was, so I declared myself healed.
Our bodies are fairly fragile, and get bruised, cut, broken, and infected easily. Some of the accidents we have only results in a bruise and minor soreness, but others can result in casts, crutches, and wheel chairs. The Apostle Paul using the word house for our physical body says that we groan as a result of the pain we experience in life.
2 Corinthians 5:2 For indeed in this house we groan,
Now at the age of 71 I have a lot of pain in a variety of places, in a variety of levels, for a variety of reasons, but it all hurts, and I groan. I also take ibuprofen and other pain killers, which helps a lot, but I still groan. But because of my upbringing I never whine or complain. I have memorized Romans 8:18, and I meditate on it when I get to hurting a lot.
“For I consider that the sufferings of this present time are not worthy to be compared with the glory that is to be revealed to us.”
Suffering produces character, the character of Christ in me, and I want that so I choose to say “thank You Jesus” when I am tempted to complain about my “owies”.
I sat down at 10:00 pm to write this blog and I didn’t feel very energetic so I sat in my chair doing nothing for an hour, and then decided to do something that almost always gives me a shot of energy, make a bowl of popcorn and put a half of a cube of butter on it! I really couldn’t write while I was eating popcorn so I watched replays of great plays in both of the semi-championship games in college football that were played this afternoon and evening. I fell asleep while watching and woke up at midnight. I was so groggy from sleeping that I couldn’t think of anything to write about. One of my motto’s when I get stuck and nothing profound comes to me is “Just write something, anything, but just write ,something”, so I wrote this and fell asleep again and it is now 1:30 am so this is all there is
I have some very strong beliefs that control much of my life. One is that I believe that we are eternal beings, and that when we die we will spend our eternity either with God or away from God. With God will be amazing joy and apart from a Him will be a total lack of joy. Psalms 16:12 says, “in Your presence is fullness of joy”. Attached to that belief is the conviction that we get to spend our eternity with God because we love Jesus, and for no other reason.
John 14:6 Jesus said to him, “I am the way, and the truth, and the life; no one comes to the Father but through Me.
John 1:12 But as many as received Him, to them He gave the right to become children of God, even to those who believe in His name,
Many believe that there are many ways to God, I do not, I believe there is only one way, and that those who do not choose that one way are eternally separated from God. If I truly care for people I will attempt to convince them that they need to follow Jesus as their savior. That I believe is a major assignment given to me by God. That is a very tough assignment, and I have had limited success in accomplishing it, so I am always pondering how to be more persuasive, influence more, attract people to my faith, and to convince them that it is truth.
I know that success in this area will be based more on the strength of my relationship with people than on my persuasive words. People won’t be drawn to my faith if I offend them in my attempt to convince them. That is what makes this assignment so difficult, the gospel according to Jesus is offensive to people. The Apostle Paul wrote much of the New Testament, started many churches, went about trying to persuade people to follow Jesus, and was martyred for his faith in Jesus. I attempt to follow Paul’s example, though most of the time not very successfully, as expressed in 1 Corinthians 9:19 and 9:23-24;
For though I am free from all men, I have made myself a slave to all, so that I may win more. . . . To the weak I became weak, that I might win the weak; I have become all things to all men, so that I may by all means save some. I do all things for the sake of the gospel,
The great challenge for me and others is, “If I am going to win people, I have to be winsome”, “if I am going to convince people that Jesus loves them, I have to be lovable“. The sad truth for me as a witness for Jesus is that often people don’t reject Jesus, they reject me, His ambassador.
In our church we have people who are avid University of Oregon Duck fans, and also totally, over the top, crazy, frothing at the mouth Oregon State Beaver fans. Personally, I am both depending on who I am with. Because we are less than an hours drive from both schools, we have a lot of both Ducks and Beavers in our church. Sometimes from the pulpit I will say half joking, that we have grief counseling available for those die hard Duck or Beaver fans, which ever lost to the other. We have people in our church who believe you can lose your salvation and those who believe that once saved you are always saved. We have those who believe that all of the sign gifts such as healing, speaking in tongues, and others are past, no longer part of the spiritual gifts in the church, and others who passionately believe in them. We have those who believe that Christians will go through the tribulation as described in the book of Revelation, and those who are very sure we will not. And we have those who are very supportive of President Trump, and those who don’t like him at all, to put it mildly. The list of topics that people in our church are on opposite sides of the fence on, is almost endless.
Psalms 133:1 Behold, how good and how pleasant it is for brothers to dwell together in unity!
Philippians 2:2 make my joy complete by being of the same mind, maintaining the same love, united in spirit, intent on one purpose.
Ephesians 4:2-3 with all humility and gentleness, with patience, showing tolerance for one another in love, being diligent to preserve the unity of the Spirit in the bond of peace.
I regularly and often will say to our church family, God blesses unity in churches, and God’s blessing is everything. The big question is, “can we have unity if we disagree on different things, and my answer is, “yes we can” if we practice certain disciplines, let me suggest 3 basic ones.
(1) Don’t attack people’s character, motives, or intelligence who don’t agree with you. I like to discuss theology, sports, and politics with people who are gracious, and don’t attack me or insult me because I disagree with them. I once said that even though much of his behavior makes me cringe, I still support, defend, and pray for President Trump. I couldn’t hardly believe the volume and the meanness of the attacks I received. I didn’t respond to any of those, but I did have some great conversations with a couple of people who were disciplined in how they talked or wrote to me and others.
(2) Give people the freedom to hold their own opinions without feeling compelled to change their views. A Duck fan is never going to convert to a Beaver fan so I won’t discuss sports with them with the goal of changing their minds. I will enjoy them and I will enjoy the discussion. I know which doctrines are essential for a person to be adopted into God’s family, and I will persuade graciously with those, but with most differences I try to practice gracious tolerance.
(3) If you truly want to change a person’s mind on a view you hold passionately it should be fairly obvious that you won’t do that by calling them names and insulting their character and motives. In order for me to change another persons opinion or belief I must believe that it is in their best interests to do so, and recognize that for me to have success “converting” them I have to maintain our friendship, our relationship in the midst of the differences, and the best way to do that is to honor them.
My family is a major joy of my life. We had 8 children, they all love Jesus, each other and Patty and I. They are all married now to wonderful spouses who also love Jesus, the rest of the family and us. They all have children, our grandchildren, 27 of them, the oldest being 19 and the youngest about 2. 5 of the 8 of our kids and their families were at our house today for Christmas and it was a wonderful time.After we ate a wonderful dinner a number of them played games together, I sat here and watched, and inwardly marveled over the love and unity that we have in our family. It is truly a gift from God that I thank Him for everyday. One of my favorite Bible passages is Psalms 127:3-5
Behold, children are a gift of the Lord, The fruit of the womb is a reward. Like arrows in the hand of a warrior, So are the children of one’s youth. How blessed is the man whose quiver is full of them;