I had my left hip replaced about 9 months ago. I was pretty much back to normal after two months. There was a little bit of pain, but not much, and I could walk pretty much better than before. I got my right hip replaced almost two months ago, and the pain is still very severe, and my walking is slow and painful. I went to my orthopedic surgeon, who did the surgery last week, and asked him why there was such a difference. He looked at the X-rays and then at the papers in his file folder. He said, “You went to physical therapy twice a week for six weeks on your last hip replacement, but this time you didn’t go at all. Why was that?” Well, the exercises and stretches they had me do weren’t very complicated, so I figured I could save myself the drive into Salem twice a week and do them myself. The next question he asked me was quite embarrassing. “So did you do them the same way and for the same amount of time?” I responded, “No, I mostly forgot.” He laughed and said, “Well, the good news is that the consequences are that you will be a month or two longer recovering than last time, but you will fully recover.”
In our spiritual walk and growth toward being like Christ in character, the worst words you can say are, “I can do it by myself, I don’t need you.” Small groups, accountability groups, support groups, Bible study groups, and prayer groups are essential for our growth and Christian maturity. Still, many sincere Christians don’t want to take the time and say, “I can do it by myself, I don’t need you.”



