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About deefduke

Pastor of Jefferson Baptist Church, ride a bicycle, fish, hunt, and have 25 grandchildren.

Effective Leadership

I teach leadership classes, and part of that is teaching leadership principles that work, they work because they are in the Bible and God made these principles. One principle is don’t boss people around. As soon as you start bossing you are no longer leading, you are bossing, and bossing only works if you have a stick. A boss can fire his employees, he can reduce their pay, he can give them nasty jobs, and he can do a number of other things that are negative in their job setting, he has a stick. Bosses who have learned how to lead instead of boss have happy employees and motivated employees and as a result make much more money in their business than those who have to threaten with a stick to get people to do what they want. So the principle is, don’t boss people around, don’t tell them what to do as in lording it over them. Good leaders learn how to appeal to people’s conscience, not try to conquer their will. There is a big difference in results and their is a big difference in people’s moral. Bosses make rules that people have to follow, leaders cast and create a vision of a better tomorrow, leaders create freedom and bosses create oppression.

President Biden recently said, “the rule is, get vaccinated or wear a mask!” I wonder how many people were motivated by that edict. There is something in people that stirs them up to be the “macho man or woman,” telling people what to do. Just because a person has a position of authority doesn’t make them a leader, more often than not it makes them a tyrant. I do a fair amount of counseling with parents on how to raise and train champions for Jesus. One of the problems that many parents have is that they try and control their kids with rules. As soon as rules are made there follows the enforcement of those rules, and bossing starts, which always produces rebellion. Leaders motivate people to make right and good decisions, bosses demotivate. People enjoy following a positive, encouraging leader, who gives freedom, and casts a powerful vision that they can be part of.

Almost everyone has the potential in their life to influence people around them, friends, family, work associates, and complete strangers. One of the key principles of leadership Jesus gave in Matthew 7:12 “In everything, therefore, treat people the same way you want them to treat you.”

Israel

Some things I believe about the nation of Israel.

1. The nation of Israel is still the people of God, He has not broken His covenant with them. The two word phrase “my people,” referencing Israel is used over 100 times in the Bible.

2. The nation of Israel was scattered all over the world in 70 AD and ceased to exist as a nation, but God promised to gather them back to the land.

Ezekiel 34:13 I will bring them out from the peoples and gather them from the countries and bring them to their own land;

In 1948, the year I was born, the nation of Israel was reborn and God has been bringing the Jewish people back to the land since then.

3. The nation of Israel will be hated by the world as the devil works through the nations as he tries continually to destroy the Jewish people.

4. God will be the protector of Israel and there will be many miracles like “the six day war” in 1967 when Israel was surrounded by most of the Arab nations but prevailed.

5. Any nation that supports Israel will be blessed by God. The United States used to be a staunch supporter of Israel.

Genesis 12:3 And I will bless those who bless you,
And the one who curses you I will curse.
And in you all the families of the earth will be blessed.”

6. At some point there will be a great revival in Israel as many Jewish people turn to Jesus as their promised Messiah.

Romans 11:26 and so all Israel will be saved; just as it is written, “The Deliverer will come from Zion,
He will remove ungodliness from Jacob.”

7. The more Israel is in the news, the closer we are getting to the coming of Jesus.

Leadership Class

I have taught four different leadership classes this year as a ministry at Jefferson Baptist Church. They started in October and ended today. I taught my first leadership Class in the church in 1980 and revised and improved the classes every year since. Teaching the class is the most enjoyable thing I do as the Pastor at JBC and, I believe, the most impactful ministry in our church over the years. The goals for the class are that every person would set their own goals each year and read them at least once each week as they pursue them. That each person would read the Bible every day for at least 15 minutes. That they would also spend 15 minutes every day with God in personal prayer. That husbands and wives would pray together at least three times each week. That each person would be a lifelong learner and seeker of wisdom, and would read good books and listen to podcasts faithfully. That each person would love our church as the Bride of Christ and be diligent to preserve the unity and love that we have in our church by their actions and words. That each person would be involved in some kind of ministry in our church that would cause the church to be healthy and grow. Almost everyone who goes through the class will give a 10 to 15-minute sermonette on some aspect of the class that blessed them and most impacted their life. Those will happen the last weekend of May and the first weekend in June. These are incredibly rewarding for me as I am aware of the significant growth many have experienced in the class for the year. Next year’s classes start the first week in October and I am already anticipating how rewarding they will be for me as I am involved in helping people become fully devoted followers and disciples of Jesus Christ.

Partnership with God

The balance between God’s sovereignty and my responsibility is challenging to figure out mentally. One of the verses that helps me is 2 Corinthians 6:1 “And working together with Him, we also urge you not to receive the grace of God in vain.”

I see many people who are up and down in their walk with the Lord, and with many of those individuals, the weak character traits in their life are self-control, diligence, endurance, and faithfulness.

2 Peter 1:5 Now for this very reason also, applying all diligence, in your faith supply moral excellence, and in your moral excellence, knowledge,

Hebrews 6:11-12 And we desire that each one of you show the same diligence so as to realize the full assurance of hope until the end, so that you will not be sluggish,

Hebrews 12:1 let us also lay aside every encumbrance and the sin which so easily entangles us, and let us run with endurance the race that is set before us,

I am a disciple of Jesus Christ and I want to bear much fruit, grow every day of my life, never backslide, never get lukewarm, and finish life well crossing the finish line at a sprint.

Because of that desire I set goals, make “to do” lists, keep track of my time, stay in accountability groups, pray a prayer of commitment every morning, and ask God for strength constantly.

At this point in my life I know that my health is a significant factor in what I do and how much I do, so I am going to take every day as a gift and run with it. As things change I am prepared mentally to shift from doing, working, teaching, counseling, and meeting to praying more and more. I am pretty sure that when I get to heaven and see clearly, that I will know that the time I spent praying for people was the most profitable use if my time, energy, and life of anything else that I did.

Building

Over the last 45 years of pastoring, my favorite part was the building projects. All of our buildings were built by volunteer labor in our church, and they were all built with cash. Every summer up until about 10 years ago was spent building. The first building project was what we call the chapel now, and it only took us three summers to build, but the gym took us six summers to finish, our present Sanctuary took eight summers, and our Discipleship Center took ten summers. Our concrete parking lot took two summers to complete. There were also several remodel projects that took a couple of summers as well. From 1977 until 2010 I spent 7 to 8 hours every day except Sundays from about June 1st until the end of August on our current building projects. I still had sermons to write, counseling to do and services to plan and preach at so I put in a huge amount of hours during the summers. Even though it was a lot of work it still was my favorite part of the year and my best memories as I look back over the years now. The reason I enjoyed it so much was that it was fun working with the people in our church family. We don’t do that now because there is no more room on our property to build any more buildings. Those were special years in the history of our church and I do miss them very much.

Tomorrow is a “Serv Inc” day. Our church is painting the Middle school. I am looking forward to tomorrow more than a fishing day, and I am so excited I doubt whether I sleep much tonight. It will be like the good old days except I won’t be moving very fast. Memories are the best part of life now.

My Outboard Motor

Now that I have some you doubting my character, the real story is that the money that I used to buy my Mercury outboard motor came from extra that I got when we recently refinanced our house and we still have intact Patty’s teeth money, though her sciatic is causing lots of pain so she isn’t probably going to the dentist until she gets to feeling better from that.

One of the things that I am thankful for is that we were greatly influenced and taught by an older couple when we were first married about financial wisdom and choices, especially about giving to the Lord and living within our means. Most of the early years of pastoring our income was very low and with eight kids we needed to budget, save, do without, and pray a lot. Now at this point in our life we aren’t rich but we will have our house paid off in a few years with no other debt. Though I did get a notice from Oregon State that I had made a mistake on our taxes and owed them an additional $35!

I do have a nice boat that I built and a fine motor to make it go! So we probably are rich!

The number of wise people in our life over the years has been a major blessing for us. We have received great counseling on our marriage, how to raise good kids, how to manage our money, our walk with God, and how to Pastor a church successfully.

A key principle though is that we sought it and we listened and learned, many don’t do that.

Patience

We have been saving up for the work that Patty needs to have done on her teeth for about 6 months. The estimate that we got from the dentist was $2,000. We got it all saved up, but I used $1,800 to buy an outboard motor for my boat this past week. Patty’s sciatic nerve was causing so much pain I didn’t think she wanted to go to the dentist anyway. Oh well, we are $200 headed towards the goal again. The motor I bought was an older Mercury but it had been totally rebuilt so I was confident it was going to be a good motor for my boat. I got it home and mounted it on my boat, but it wouldn’t start. I did all the normal checks and found that there was no spark at the plugs. I tried taking the wire out of the coil that goes to the distributor and I couldn’t get it out. I pulled and pulled until I pulled the wire in two, and I broke the nose off of the coil trying to get the wire out with a screw driver. Outboard motors are compact engines and it helps to have hands the size of a two year old while working on one in order to reach all the nuts and parts in order to get the coil out. I finally did get it out, and took it apart and found that a mud dauber had gotten into the end of the coil and filled it with mud and cemented the wire in there. I got it all cleaned up, got a new coil wire made up, and a new coil face, and put it all back together again with only a couple of parts left over, and hallelujah it started right up. When I took it to Detroit Lake to test it out, it ran great and then died. We waited a bit and it started right up and ran great and then died again. We did this a half a dozen times, and then we gave up, got it back to the loading ramp and took it home. I worked on it today and found that the gas hose had somehow gotten under the 50 gallon tank and when I filled it with gas the weight crushed the gas line and plugged it so only a little gas could make it through. It seems to be running great now using the garden hose and the muffs to run it and keep it cool. I will take it back to Detroit this next week and give it a good test, and see if I should have spent the money on Patty’s teeth.

Dry as Dirt Duty

There is a journey that must be taken to become a faithful, self-controlled servant of Jesus Christ who reads their Bible every day, spends time with God in prayer every day, complains about nothing, rejoices always, only speaks words that give grace to those who hear, takes every thought captive to the obedience of Christ, loves their wife the way Jesus loves the church, and serves their church using their spiritual gift.

The journey starts with a commitment, let’s say, to read the Bible every day using the “Bible Project” reading plan. So then, the commitment will look something like this, “Dear Lord, today I will read your word, please help me to keep this commitment.” write the commitment out on a piece of 8 1/2 x 11 paper in big letters, and tape it to wall in your bathroom. Then put some tape on your toothbrush handle, a lot of tape so you can’t miss it. Then put a cross on the tape with a felt tip marker that reminds you of your commitment. Every time you brush your teeth, you will be reminded to remake your commitment, “Dear Lord, today I will read Your Word, help me to keep this commitment.” Then you make a chart on your smartphone or Ipad for the month, and check off each day after you read your Bible. Then you ask some people to hold you accountable and tell them you are going to email a copy of your chart to them each week. Then you write out a deal to yourself sharing it with your accountability partners that if you read your Bible 28 days out of the month you are going to reward yourself with $100 to take your wife out to dinner, or buy something special for yourself, but if you fail you will give a hundred dollar bill to a homeless person or something similar. Resolve to do this with no excuses or bailing on the plan just because you fail or get discouraged.

It will probably take a year, but if you don’t wimp out you will have established a habit. Now reading your Bible is going to get much easier. If you keep it up for another year you will move to the place that Psalms one calls “in His Word he delights, ” reading the Bible is the delight of your heart, it is no longer a grind it out discipline.

The problem with most people is that they want to jump right to “delight, ” but it just doesn’t work that way. It is a journey that starts with “dry as dirt duty”, then it moves to habit, then we become a person who loves reading the Bible every day, and you couldn’t not read the Bible, it has become such a part of who you are.

Take on one discipline after the other using the same plan, and it won’t be that long before you are a faithful disciple of Jesus who is bearing much fruit.

Very few Christians ever get there, because they can’t get past the “dry as dirt duty.”

I Know Your Name

In John 10:14 Jesus said, “I am the good shepherd, and I know My own and My own know Me”

I have a goal of knowing everyone’s name in our church. I don’t right now, there are a number of newer people who I have not yet got their name and their face put together. I have several methods that I am using to accomplish my goal. One is I work very hard before and after each service greeting as many people as possible, majoring on the ones I don’t know very well. If I don’t know their name I ask what it is, and then I write it on the palm of my hand and look at it repeatedly in the next couple of hours. I also take pictures of people with my phone and put them in my prayer journal. I pray for every person in our church every week and I look at the picture that have with their name and various prayer requests that I have collected for them. Doing that week after week I soon remember their names.

I don’t need to learn every person’s name, but I feel so much more power in my praying when I know who I am praying for, and pray with some understanding of who they are, what their needs are, and what is there state in their relationship with Jesus.

Whenever I say “I love you” to people in our church, I am saying it as a commitment to them. I am committed to praying for them, I am committed to doing whatever I can to help them grow in their walk with God, and I am committed to knowing them as a unique person and being their friend.

Jesus said, “I am the good shepherd.” I am not “the” good shepherd, only Jesus can be that, but I do want to be “a” good shepherd.

Dee’s Daily Commitments

(I pray this prayer every morning without fail.)

Today, Lord Jesus, I declare You Lord of my life. I will obey You and do whatever You ask no matter how difficult or hard it might be. I am not boss of my life, You are, You purchased my life with Your blood, and I am Yours.

Today I will read Your Word.

Today I will be devoted to prayer.

Today I will love my wife the way You love the church, and gave Yourself up for her.

Today I will only speak words that edify, build up, and give grace to those who hear.

Today I will forgive anybody of anything, because you have forgiven me of everything.

Today I will not get angry at anybody, not even a little bit irritated.

Today so far as it depends on me I will be at peace with all men.

Today I will take every thought captive to the obedience of Christ.

Today I will love anybody You sovereignty bring into my life, no matter how hard they might be to love.

Today I will lift up my eyes and look for divine appointments from You to influence people to love You and follow You.

Today I will seek you diligently.

Today I will live my life as if it is the last before I stand before You at the judgment Seat of Christ and am held accountable for my life and am rewarded for the deeds I have done in the body, whether good or bad.

Dear Lord, I can’t keep these commitments in my strength, would You please fill me with Your Spirit and give me your strength to keep these commitments today.