I have written twelve descriptions, purpose statements of different areas of life, behavior, attitude, and character. I have made these the standard that I am aiming to become. I probably will never fully reach or become my standard unless I live to be 200 years old, but I want to grow a little bit closer to it every day, a little bit every day, every day.

1 Corinthians 9:24 Do you not know that those who run in a race all run, but only one receives the prize? Run in such a way that you may win.

I want to live my life as if I am in a race to win, not casually or comfortably, not in a casual stroll through life. I want to program my mind to believe that being slow and comfortable is boring, but fast and demanding is fun, that being busy is good.

Proverbs 10:4 Poor is he who works with a negligent hand,
But the hand of the diligent makes rich.

Proverbs 12:24 The hand of the diligent will rule,
But the slack hand will be put to forced labor.

A simple picture for me is a huge pile of gravel that I am shoveling into a wheelbarrow and wheeling to a construction site and dumping out. How many wheelbarrows of gravel will I deliver to the job site before I die. I want that final number to matter to me very much, every day, all the time.

Proverbs 12:27 A lazy man does not roast his prey,
But the precious possession of a man is diligence.

Proverbs 14:23 In all labor there is profit,
But mere talk leads only to poverty.

Colossians 3:23 Whatever you do, do your work heartily, as for the Lord rather than for men,

Ecclesiastes 9:10 Whatever your hand finds to do, do it with all your might;

I want to train myself to enjoy the feeling of being weary and tired, to see it as a sign that I have accomplished something with my life that matters. My flesh can easily wallow in self-pity when exhausted, but I want to take my negative thoughts captive and rejoice in the great honor of being able to serve the God of the universe.

John 17:4 I (Jesus) glorified You on the earth, having accomplished the work which You have given Me to do.

John 21:25 And there are also many other things which Jesus did, which if they were written in detail, I suppose that even the world itself could not contain the books that would be written.

John 14:12 Truly, truly, I say to you, he who believes in Me, the works that I do, he will do also; and greater works than these he will do; because I go to the Father.

I want to accomplish more in my lifetime than Jesus did. Not as a point of pride but because He said I could.

1 Corinthians 15:10 But by the grace of God I am what I am, and His grace toward me did not prove vain; but I labored even more than all of them, yet not I, but the grace of God with me.

God’s grace is God’s power. Grace is not an excuse to do nothing with my life; grace is doing more than Jesus did with His power.

Proverbs 12:25
Anxiety in a man’s heart weighs it down,
But a good word makes it glad.

Proverbs 12:18
There is one who speaks rashly like the thrusts of a sword,
But the tongue of the wise brings healing.

Proverbs 12:14
A man will be satisfied with good by the fruit of his words,

We live in a day when people think they are tough when insulting another person and making them look like a fool. What the politicians and media have been doing non-stop is now influencing our culture more and more.

I have written a number of purpose statements for my life. Statements that define what I want to be as a person. They aren’t goals because they aren’t measurable, and they are a bit more wordy than my morning commitments. I don’t have a lot, just a dozen, but together they are my picture of a perfect person, the person I am working towards becoming. Here is one of my purpose statements.

I want to serve God with my words, my words to people all around me in my life. Words have great power. God created everything by speaking it into existance. I have the potential, being a disciple of Jesus, to create, to motivate, to heal, to change people, and to communicate the gospel. So many people are full of fear and anxiety, and I would like to fill them full of joy by the words that I speak to them. So many people have wounded hearts from failure, hurts, and disappointments. I want to be able to heal their heart by speaking the right words to them. I want to talk about the Bible to people in such a way that it becomes alive, and they have a real encounter with the God of the universe by the power of words. I want to be able to motivate and energize the discouraged, the depressed, and those who don’I think they are capable of doing anything that really matters, convincing them that they can. I want to speak to people who are confused and don’t know what to do next, and give them wisdom and counsel that would guide them into God’s perfect will for their life. I want very much to speak words to people who are angry, bitter, and at odds with others, moving them to forgive, to be patient, to be kind, and to be at peace with all people.

I believe that I can become that kind of man, that kind of communicator, teacher, servant of God as God teaches me and empowers me.

I have 73 goals, and here are the top dozen.

#2. I will pray 30 minutes every day by myself.

#3. I will pray for an additional 15 minutes twice a week on my kneeling bench in my office.

#4 I will pray for a total of 40 hours during each of the “Five Day Prayer Events” that JBC holds four times a year.

#5. I will pray with Patty a minimum of three times each week.

#6. I will pray through the Church Prayer Letter each week.

#7. I will pray for every person in JBC every week using my IPad and the app that I have to help me keep track of people, their needs, victories, and problems.

#8. I will pray for Patty, all our kids, son-in-laws, daughter-in-laws, and all grandkids every day.

#9. I will keep my prayer app “PrayerMate” up to date with information, pictures, and the needs of each person in it.

#10. I will write prayers in my prayer journal and pray through previously written prayers twice each week.

#12. I will pray a “Commitment Prayer” presenting my life to Christ as Lord of my life every morning, first thing.

#31. I will pray in three regular JBC corporate prayer times each week.

#54. I will pray for each staff person, each Elder and their families twice each week.

#63. I will pray every day for 44 baptisms at JBC in 2022 and remind everyone in JBC to do the same at least once each week.

Oops, there are 13 of my goals that are prayer-related goals, not a dozen. Prayer is very important to me. I believe the time I spend praying has great impact on my life, the life of those that I pay for, and on the health of JBC.

My life “Mission Statement” is to be a man devoted to prayer, and to convince as many other people as possible to be people devoted to prayer.

I have 73 goals for this year. I already have two of the harder ones accomplished; finding a person to oversee the small group ministry at JBC and finding someone to be the pastor at Buena Vista Community Church, both accomplished. As I was reading through the 71 Goals that I have left this afternoon, I started thinking about #61 and researching it. “I will go to a major and very good church growth seminar this year and take at least one staff member with me.” I researched by Googling “fastest-growing churches” and then reading through the websites and Facebook sites of the churches that came up in the search. I also typed in “best church growth seminars,” and did the same with that list. Part of the problem and challenge is that I only have certain dates open to go to one of these seminars. It seems like the very best ones all fall on a date that would be impossible to go.

Back in the early days of JBC in the 80’s and 90’s I would go to a seminar around four times each year. I always learned a ton of information and could hardly wait to return home and put all my newfound wisdom into practice. I didn’t know very much about leading a church, about effective, corporate evangelism methods, about much of anything related to pastoring, so I was like a kid in a candy store when I went on these trips.

You can learn something from anybody, but given a choice, “Learn from the Best!” There are seminars and retreats on marriage, parenting, managing money, blogging, woodworking, boat building, computer use, fishing, hunting, weight loss. There really isn’t much of an excuse for staying dumb, except our laziness and pride.

For some reason I got lots of nuts for Christmas this year, way more than usual. I got lots of mixed nuts, almonds, peanuts, and hazel nuts. My major bhag this year is to loose weight. Right now I weigh more than I have for about 10 years, and I am determined to succeed in accomplishing my goal. My goal is to lose 40 lbs and get down to 188 lbs, which is what I weighed the day before we got married, 52 years ago. Nuts aren’t exactly low calorie but they do work in a Keto diet because they have no carbs.

One of the things that is going to be cool about heaven is that my glorified body won’t get fat. That means if Jesus comes back tonight I am forever done with diets, that will be so nice.

One of the things that I do each year is to pick one character trait that I focus on. This year it will be self-control. I will find as many Bible verses as I can on the character trait and memorize and meditate on them, I will buy a couple of books on self-control, I will listen to podcasts on how to grow stronger in self-control, and I will work at growing in this character trait in 2022. I know that becoming more self-controlled will not only help in my eating, or I should say, my not eating, but it will help in my speech, my thought life, my use of time, and a host of other area in my life.

When I have zero motivation I sit in my recliner staring out the window with no desire to do anything else. But then I think about all the consequences that will come into my life if I sit there the rest of my life so my motivation level moves up to ten and I get up and go to the bathroom. I was motivated by the fear of loss, fear of shame, fear of pain. Fear is the most basic of the motivations, the foundation, the fear of the Lord is the beginning of wisdom. I became a Christian because I didn’t want to spend eternity in agony and pain in the “Lake of Fire.” Many things I choose to do because of the consequences that I will experience if I don’t. It is getting close to tax time. Most of what our government does with the money I pay to them I am opposed to, but I send it anyway because they have a big stick.

The second motivation in the hierarchy of motivators is the hope of reward, the desire for pleasure and joy, the craving for glory, the sense of accomplishment. We train our dog, Roscoe, with doggy treats; when he obeys, he gets a doggy treat. God motivates us with the fear of punishment and the hope of reward throughout the Bible; Heaven and hell, the “Judgment Seat of Christ,” and blessings in life for right choices right living. Most people have very little awareness that God disciplines for wrong behavior and rewards for good behavior, so they sit in their recliner staring out the window.

Dogs are motivated by these two motivators and with many people that is mostly what motivates them to work hard, study hard, have a good marriage, manage their money well, and even serve in their church.

But moving up the hierarchy of motivators we come to “Love of person.” Jesus died on the cross because He loved us, and he said that if we truly love others we will lay down our life for them. Paul declared that his love for Jesus motivated all the sacrifices that he made in life. If I love my wife the way Jesus loves the Church I will give up my life for her. Fear of loss and hope of reward are all about me, but love is all about others. When I get all three of those motivators working together in my heart like a well-oiled machine, I become a very motivated person accomplishing a lot with my life that matters for all eternity.

One more motivator is the highest of them all, which many people, Christian people, good people have little of. It is duty or a sense of responsibility. Duty is much like love but love has a face attached to it, a name, a relationship. I watched some video footage of “D-Day” at Normandy in the Second World War. As I watched men plunge off of landing craft into the water with intense gunfire and bombs going off all around them, facing almost certain death, I wondered what was motivating them to do that. It was undoubtedly more than the character trait of bravery. My Dad had four ships sunk under him during World War II, and I recognized in him all through his life a strength of motivation that resulted in a very faithful man. One of his sayings was, “always do the right thing because it is the right thing.” I wonder how many people are motivated by that saying? Some have debated with me over my making duty nobler than love. I do so on the fact that very few people have grown to that motivation in regular, everyday life. Many will rise to it in crisis situations, like war, but few live it every day. Those who have all four motivators going like four pistons in an engine have a lot of power.

Duty as a motivator is a result of identity. A soldier faces danger because that is what soldiers do, my Dad called it “the power of the uniform.” My identity now is, I am a disciple, a fully devoted follower of Jesus Christ, a servant of the most high God. If I am, then I need to act like it, live like it, talk like it. That is my duty on the basis of who I am.

My overriding goal is to get better. Some things I won’t get better at, though, I will probably do worse. I will run slower and less; I will bike slower, I will get dressed slower, it will take me longer to do most projects in my shop, it will take a lot longer to get our winter wood in, almost everything physical I will do slower, I will probably even fish slower!

But my big goal of getting better has to do with my character, maturity, and Christ-likeness. I hunger and thirst to be more righteous; I agonize over my character flaws, the things I say that I know are wrong the second they come out of my mouth. The irritability that I often feel, I would like to be forever done with. The critical and judgmental thoughts I have towards people around me, I would like those gone too. The laziness that I sense slowly creeping into my life because of the increasing difficulty of doing things physically, I would like to conquer that one, stomp it to death.

It is difficult to write goals for those things, but I can write a Bible reading goal, a scripture memory goal, a prayer goal, a journaling goal, a worship God goal, and others like that. Spiritual discipline goals that will result in God working in my life, changing me from the inside out, giving me power, giving me wisdom, giving me joy, making my soul healthy, helping me sense His joy and pleasure in me as His son.

Spiritual disciplines are designed by God to make us like Himself in character. They are supernatural in their effect on my heart, my attitude, my motives, and my thoughts. The problem is that my flesh, my sin nature does not want to do any of the disciplines. That is why I set goals. Goals are the most powerful tool to overcoming my flesh. Paul said, “I don’t run without aim and I don’t box as beating the air, but I beat my flesh and make it my slave.” But, my flesh hates goals also, in fact my flesh fears goals, as does the devil and his demons. Please help me Lord, we can do this.

I have been writing one year goals since I was 16 years old, and last year was my worst year for actually accomplishing the goals that I wrote. One of the principles that I teach about successful goal setting is the need to be flexible and make adjustments to your goals if needed. Because of all that was happening in our world this last year I became ultra flexible, and I was making adjustments to almost all of my goals every week. It is hard to hit the bullseye when it moves all of the time.

Some people quit setting goals if they have a bad year accomplishing them because they don’t like feeling like a failure. I get irritated at myself and write a couple extra BHAGS, figure out what I did wrong, make adjustments, oops fell asleep here a couple of hours ago and now I am to rummy to think straight.

Someone gave me a package of black licorice from Trader Joe’s for Christmas. I have eaten a lot of different licorice over the years and consider myself somewhat of a licorice connoisseur. Still, this licorice ought to be considered illegal because it is so good someone would kill for it. It is big around, it is soft but still chewy, and the licorice taste is so strong, it is fantastic.

I wonder if there will be licorice in heaven? It seems if heaven is going to be heaven there will undoubtedly be licorice, and for sure Trader Joe’s.

Life is full of small pleasures that happen all day long, but we often steamroll right past them for any number of reasons, but one being we become indifferent to the “small” things in life because any one of them is not that big of a deal, but if they were all stacked up they would be a huge deal.

Becoming a positive person, a happy person, happens when we become a grateful person for all the little good things that happen to everybody all of the time, even in the worst of times.

It is so easy to become a negative person, one who sees mostly just the bad things that happen in life. You then will become a sad person, a bitter person, one who is no fun to be around.

My solution for all negative, sad people is go buy a bag of black licorice at Trader Joe’s, eat it all in one sitting, but eat it slowly, savoring every piece. Then thank Jesus for the pleasure and then determine that you will notice every good thing, no matter how small, and thank Jesus for it all. If you feel yourselves going back into the pit of being negative, buy another bag of licorice, but don’t be a slow learner or otherwise you will get really fat.

This is the most snow I can remember having here in a long time. In the past, whenever the weatherman would make a big hype about coming snow, my response would be, “yeah, right,” because it never happened, so imagine my surprise when I walked out on our back porch on Sunday at 6:00 am to see all the snow! It has been fun watching the grandkids play in the snow. I threw one snowball at my grandson, Courage and I still can’t brush my teeth with that arm. There are certain things old guys shouldn’t do, and throwing snowballs is certainly on that list, maybe even at the top.

We went up to Fairbanks, Alaska last year to have Christmas with our daughter Shelly and her family, and there was lots of snow. Where I grew up in Trout Lake, Washington there was frequently a lot of snow. I remember when I was a Junior in High School walking around on the top of the snow in our driveway/parking area, jamming a six-foot pole into the snow trying to find my car before the snow removal guys showed up to clear up enough space for the milk truck to get into so they could pick up our milk, I didn’t want them to run into my car with that snowplow.

The snow will get mushy and dirty in a couple of days, but right now it is very beautiful, white, clean, hanging on the trees, and looking like a white Christmas, Christmas card. It reminds me of one of the few verses in the Bible that mentions snow.

Psalms 51:7-9 Wash me, and I shall be whiter than snow.
Make me to hear joy and gladness,
Let the bones which You have broken rejoice.
Hide Your face from my sins

Because of my faith in Jesus Christ I am washed by God, I am spiritually clean, God forgives my sins, and I am going to live forever and ever with God. Awesome promise.