I Don’t Like Them

I saw someone at the Sportsman’s Show this past week from a distance I haven’t seen for years. I don’t like them very much, so I turned around so as not to have them see me and be forced into a conversation I wouldn’t enjoy. It happened quickly, and what I did was primarily instinctive and unthought-out. After I turned around and walked away, I started thinking about the past as far as this individual was concerned and got emotionally worked up by my thoughts. I got a cup of coffee and some fries from an outside vendor and went and sat in my truck for a while. It wasn’t long before I repented of my bitterness, forgave them, and prayed for God’s blessing in their life. I went back in looking for them and was committed to warmly greeting them and talking about their life and how things were going. I never saw them again, so I assume I would have done well in my encounter with them. As I think about that event today, I am surprised at how easily past offenses stick with us and how quickly negative emotions pop into my heart when I see someone I don’t like from my past. I still don’t like them in that I probably won’t invite them to go fishing with me, but I can still love them, forgive them, and talk to them graciously if I see them again. Living life successfully is living by principles, commitments, and convictions, not emotions. I know what is right before God, and He will give me the strength to live it if I choose to.

3 thoughts on “I Don’t Like Them

  1. doyathinkk's avatardoyathinkk

    Thanks for this post, Pastor Dee! Knowing that not everyone likes or gets along with each other, this post accurately expressed the reality of our very real emotional realities…but God. All glory to Yahweh, through His son Yeshua, for setting the captives free. Abundant blessings.

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  2. kerrykinghoffman's avatarkerrykinghoffman

    I needed this reminder today. God bless you for your honesty. We are fleshy people in our quick responses and Thankful when we sit with the Lord he guides us in truth. Love God ~ Love people♡

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